Life is too short. I just made an entire post reflecting on the new year and realizing how quickly time passes. Life doesn’t wait for you, so you can’t wait for it. Time passes by whether we want it to or not. Time waits for no one. And this realization put me into overdrive of accomplishing things that I want to this year. I’m more motivated than ever. Hard work and perseverance will get me where I want to be.
I didn’t intend to do a follow up on my previous post. I thought all my reflections going into the new year were done. However, I was scrolling through Facebook yesterday and saw a newspaper article my cousin had posted. It was about an explosive house fire that had occurred. A 30 something year old man and his 10 year old son still missing. The father’s truck parked out back. One body found, not identified yet. Another, still missing. By time firefighters got to the house, it was totally set ablaze. It was the coldest day of the winter so far where I live, which only deterred the efforts of the firefighters to locate the bodies in the rubble. Even with one body found and another missing, both are presumed dead.
It’s a tragic story. 30 some years old is too young. 10 years old is even more heartbreaking. The kid literally just made it into double digits. It’s gut wrenching. But what made it even more unsettling was that was the love of my cousin’s life. And although that was not her son, she still aches for both. To make it even more upsetting, they did have a son. He is currently two years old and will only have memories of his father. These probably won’t even be his own memories. Just stories shared by others to keep his father’s memory alive. I texted my cousin immediately after seeing this. I offered my condolences and let her know I’m here if she needs anything. She responded that she’s devastated and thanked me for reaching out. I wish there was more I could say, more I could do to make everything okay for her. I just can’t even imagine the pain she’s experiencing.
It’s stories like these that really hit me. This one especially, hit a little too close to home. I’d never personally met the man, but to know that this can happen and happen so close to my family, it’s left me kind of shaken. It just reaffirmed that time should not be taken for granted. So, please if there are things you want to accomplish, find a way to do them. Live your life to the fullest and love your family and friends deeply. Sending positive vibes and wishing you all happiness.